We move on from one moment to the next,
Honour what had been.
Seen it, heard it, felt it and be glad.
One foot ahead of the other,
One word after another
The next minute awaits,
A constant reminder
To just be
有时，一些长辈，得道高人的几句话，能让你突然领悟，从一片黑暗中，再次感觉到光明的方向。让你那心神不定的思绪，又回复平静。。。 当在感到迷茫的时候，不妨和多几个人谈谈，说不定，有哪几句金玉良言，就能帮到你。 Hey, 你说过的，我记得。。。又走了再见了
I have recently attended more wedding banquets in the last few months than I ever did in the last one year. Why the surge? Dragon year? Increasing home prices, buy before it increases again?More soulmates found each other?
I am in no doubt happy for friends, who have chosen this path out of their own free will. They want it, they got it.
As our society evolves, we are more open and exposed to varied lifestyles. Norms and conventions are never stagnant, ever changing depending on socio- economic conditions, or politically engineered to sustain some or simply due to enlightenment? In the olden days, women marry out of financial dependency. Children are born to provide labour for the farms, or basically, people have no knowledge of contraception.
Who do people marry now? Reasons have changed, and it is different for everyone. The awareness of the various possibilities in weaving the social fabric is vital for the development of a more embracing Society.
Judgements of what is a good, or bad life only breeds suppression of individuals, which ultimately induce unhappy families.
The recent debate about singles buying BTO has been an interesting discussion topic for my friends. My closest group of friends are mostly single, some out of choice, some still seeking. Those who are seeking, we wish them the best, it is always those who choose to remain single that become a topic of interest.
Like those who choose to be married, there are lots of reasons why some don’t. Some are just not buying into the concept, some want to devote their lives to others by doing humanitarian or missionary work, or some just feel complete by being with him/herself.
I am just glad to be born in an era where people are thinking through what they want in their lives,and having the freedom to pursue them. Yes or no to marriage, no right or wrong.
Bottom line… live lovingly, as one or two.